How to ask a guy out over text? He is choosing to not respond to you. No girl deserves this. but only 2.5 hours away I have had worse, secondly, he has 3 kids, which I was excited about, third, I got sick. It was a mutual connection and feeling then it just suddenly vanished on his end apparently. No one. When a guy suddenly disappears from your life, you want to figure out what to text him when he disappears. I cant deny I had a lot of fun. But all in all, I hope you find someone amazing one day, you deserve it. In fact, you have everything to gain because you will find out if you matter to him or not. Hed come back and things would be great again. The guy needs to understand that at no point will you tolerate his behavior. Not waiting for his messages. ive met this guy in Tinder, we chatted for almost a month, all the time, about everything He said hed love to meet me in person, but I had to go abroad for work for about two weeks, so we planned a date right after that. Till then, continue to date, open yourself to other menYou might not even want to be with him by the time he comes around (Which he will). I have a bf and we ere together like 2 years more we are LDR. I then was being goofy one night and had sent him a text thinking everything is grand and his response was who is this? Now here is my question Ladies and Gentlemen why when everything seemed to be fine and normal would he delete my number? 4. I would suggest you look at the more introverted type who dont have lots of options and they will love every second of your Disney like lovely personality. Do not listen to his words. Im rather confused and very much hurt. Charnel, Thanks Annand FYI we are both 40. I seem to always get the disappearing act, so whatever it is that Im doing or not doing, I dont know. One who cares enough to freakin respond!good luck. He was the one suggesting this could lead to something more while we were chatting, he even told me what he wanted to do for our second, even third date He talked about things we could do together after retiring (!) We ended up blocking each other every where Facebook, whats app, phone calls. One of the easiest new connections Ive ever had. Keira, I got the same thing but it was 5 years on and off and then we became best friends forever and then he ghosted. Loving friendships can happen anywhere, but for actual romance you need that 3rd dimension. I didnt reply to a text that to me seemed very drawn out after he said he had been having a stressful week. If he did t like me why didnt he politely tell me. yes. AnNieH, Off at his hotel and said, he is tired and we should meet up for dinner and i said, Ill come pick him up. So I told him its best if you call me then. He told me he cared about me. Its been 3 weeks now. we were both bored with our lives, we started talking about going on a trip together in asia.. im gonna pass on the details but the day before I was supposed to move back to my home country, and so 3 months before going to asia, I found out he had blocked me on social media (even though he kept texting me)..I was devastated and humiliated (I had to find an excuse when every kept asking me when r u going to asia again? You didnt do anything wrong and you are good enough to have the relationship you want with a man you want, this guy just wasnt it. I got heart broken and I asked him that I want to talk and then he just stopped texting me back and opened his profile on the online dating site where we met first. Dont sweat it. Ask him a question pretending as if nothing happened; Start a conversation casually without addressing his behavior yet; He texts and calls only when he needs favors; Never asks about what or how youre doing. After 3 years of very challenging relationship, my fianc and I split temporarily ( or at least thats what I thought) because I couldnt stay overseas with him, and I had no money left and either a job in Spain. We are both in our early 30s. no response to texts no phone calls no anything. And it happened to me only once. shame on me because Im the one who always initiate contact.. but today i deleted his number and ready to throw him where he belong. The very next day I pick myself up and end the realtionship for good via text. Listen to your friends and move on. Its an addiction to. Many are married cheaters looking for a quick lay and that is all. If a guy vanished on you, this says everything about him, not you. I assumed it was just the alcohol. First date went really well and we agreed to see each other the day after. His fickelness so early is a bad sign. Unfortunately theres also a lot of egocentric losers out there too. I have been speaking to a younger guy I met online from.a different.city who seemed really nice he as been calling me..most night messaging me everyday told.me.im the girl he as rebooking for ect and we have been planning to meet.up then I started noticing he was speaking to other girls and taking.longer than usual to reply I guess he was doing the fade out thing so I dissent message him today at all I usually message him everyday then I got home from work went to message him on Facebook and he has blocked me wtf.i dont know what Ive done but theres a pattern emerging it has happened a few times before its really starting to annoy me.and im so hurt I speak to his friend who says I should give him space and hold out but I dont know weather I should just walk away I dont want to look pathetic ? Then he disappeared. He was chasing me, always initiating contact and finally I agreed to meet in person although I wanted to keep it slow. We both made time and hes even lose sleep because he wants time with me. Its spring time and he told me he would be pretty busy since this was his busiest season. I feel you talking about my own story!!! Hmmmm, I felt probably he was open to making this thing he had going work but it took me a week to reply that I wanted, A man who Respect and Treat me exactly how he would want his sister or daughter to be treated. Who have said they want to MARRY you? He booked tickets for an event 6 months ahead of time. I dont know. He claimed he was so sorry for dleaving me hanging that it wasnt fair etc. Also, men just arent as equipped to handle emotions and emotional situations as women are, so they avoid them. I am trying so hard to move on. I wish I had closure. Im confused by your actions and I sense that you are too. Had a good weekend? (Can you believe this asshole?) I had a serious crush 3 years ago on a class mate at high school and he knew I had a crush on him, we became great class mates meaning we hung out only when at school and at class, infact at class we two were inseparable. One day he told me that he likes me, I kinda expected it not because I want him to say it but I have this weird gut feeling that he indeed likes me more than a friend. And it was reciprocal. We are already on to the phone sex and I dont want a casual fling. Thats not going to happen if youre texting him and being in constant contact with him. Few weeks ago I would have cared cos I really liked him (even though I kept telling myself not to). Wait For Him At The Moment. It does suck though, I admit, because I thought he liked me and I was really taken with him. We joked around we laughed we genuinely enjoyed each others company. He went away on holidays and when he came back I texted him. It was a fairy tale. i spent the last few days crying and devastated and thinking up messages/emails to send him. 3. He doesn't really want a real relationship. I did call him once and he did call me back and was very nice and talkative. you should have moved on long ago. So I messaged him on Facebook basically telling him to tell me right then what was going on and that I obviously still wanted him and could not take a hint so to tell me how he felt. Also, read my comments above. Did he attempt to ask favors? I decided to ask if he wanted to hang out. I have come across such a generous, good man once in my life and he is the only ex i have stayed friends with. I have not read anything until now that describes what you wrote, in such a simple, easy-to-understand format. I dont cre that much although I spended some energy writing this text but really Im just so curious about hus behviour, he swallowed his ego nd texted me years later and then didnt bother reply back and ghosted on me. Although I was trying to keep my cool I was starting to like this guy. Me: Mr Fade out..Its been quite a while since we spoke actually the next time I hear from you is going to benext wednesday??..lol. He wanted to lone wolf it. So I checked up on one of his social media profiles. i was EXTREMELY into this girl but the first date glow went up in smoke on the second date. Comfortable asking him. Generally if i am very attracted i have NO IDEA whether i really like someone at the beginning. I called him the following week and no answer. anyways to be told to come over and then for him to hide in his house was a horrible way to be let down. Well, what about something like this: I had a great time hanging out with you but I just want to be sure that you feel the same way about me. We have trained women to be selfish in conversation then act shocked when they are (i talked to her for two hours on the phone and she didnt ask me a single question!). You tell your family and about this great guy. Because I dont think I should, I think you shouldnt talk to him. Because I didnt know he was a magician. He replied he was just busy and sure he was, he was full of lame excuses and denials and I believe some lies as well. Recently divorced I texted that I sensed something was up. He knew he could say good by at any time in in the past 6 mo the that we were heading this long distance thing. Two days go by, I tried calling him, he didnt call back. As in, send a picturelol I have nice feet and it wasnt a big deal. If so, we could go to this great place maybe I can loosen you up a bit. Funny how dissapearance happens very often during the xmas time.I had similar situation.Did not hear a word from him for a week and then he responded to me that he wanted a peaceful xmas without a phone.But I was worried that something might have happenend to a person. Ive known a guy for 6 months now. But he doesnt want to let you go as that would mean that hell lose you forever. In reality they are emotional vampires. I feel you. I have to say he was pretty eager from the first date. He felt that he had lost himself and doesnt know how to get back to the person he once was. Why is that! He does have to take a minute to eat, right, just send me a text, hello, everything is ok. It sucks that I lost my best friend and also the fact that I told him I like him too then he disappeared. He said that before and was the first to say it. He decided after that he wasnt that into pursuing it further. My next point will explain this further. I met this guy at my job 6 months ago. I miss him even though he did a sh*tty thing to me. But it is always me who has to text first. Of course he really didnt have much to say about it, said he just got off work and was tired and didnt need the drama, he actually said it in a nice way! Ethnic background did ask me, how far I had gone with my ex and I was completely honest about it. Only then will he realize how bad of a mistake he made. Its now been a little over a week with absolutely no contact from his end. The reasons dont matter, the facts do. At first, youll be worried about whether everythings okay and then, youll simply want to know whether hes ever coming back to you. I said it was ok. He said he wasnt interested. It was like we had known each other for years instead of just a month. More responsible ^*( person ) to do that. And thats all Im confused and frustrated. I actually got a little hot under the collar about it which I shouldnt have. Things had been fast and intense between us. I send a couple of text messages, saying I cant wait to see you, etc. He became very jealous, and controlling. So this has just happened to me and has got to be one of the worst feelings in the world. But I guess that wasnt what he needed at the time. Im sure youve read numerous books about men being one track minded whereas women tend to be multi-focusers. What does this mean and what to do? It would be nice to have an explanation, but I doubt Ill get one. I left her hanging, blocked her on all social media accounts. I dont understand him probably never will. I dont generally ask for advice about my relationships ( this isnt a relationship) since I am super reserved, but Ive found this website helpful and needless to say I am CONFUSED. ), but maybe deep down shell get the message. The first date turned into a weekend. With both personal and professional experience in relationships, I offer advice that is both empathetic and accurate. No, hes fine. He had told me that everything he had ever searched for that he couldnt possibly find he found it in me. When he left, he told me how much he liked me and that we absolutely had to meet again if we both have some free time etc We kept texting for the next 2 weeks and I started to talk about another meeting, but I had a very full work schedule, and he said something like, no need to hurry, I wont run away from here I didnt get the hint. Thus we cut off and run rather than face the reality of hurting you in a face to face situation. To check someones message in class means u r thinking about them. Its just not a good feeling. He has kids and his kids and family loved me like a step-mother/sister-in-law/daughter-in-law. When we were together in the room there was plenty of kissing. Why did you talk to him for 2 yrs without meeting him? Now, I understand women are getting more and more frustrated with this and I think men are doing this more and more as actually are women. the second and third time made me feel ALMOST sad for him. 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